Farewell: original letter to self written Feb. 2020

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Farewell letter to self, part 1


Coined by her first mentor, Ali was an "organized" free spirit.  On one hand, she was organized and determined, and on the other hand, she had a passion for adventure and spiritual growth.  Ali’s passions for dancing and yoga were an integral part of her life and a tool she continuously came back to ground her when she needed.


What Ali valued most important was being kind and creating authentic relationships with herself and others. She loved doing small gestures like pulling together quotes for her colleague’s work anniversary, chatting with strangers on LinkedIn who reached out for advice, and sending small gifts to her friends on their birthday.  She loved to play and teach yoga and meditation to her son, husband and local community.


As Ali grew older, she learned how to combine her expertise in logistics and product management with her passion for the environment.  She built upon her life-long career in logistics by leading a company that shared a vision for a more sustainable future that reduced our carbon footprint.  She mentored individuals across the industry, inspired discovery, led by example, and challenged others to be the best they could be.  


When she retired, Ali and Mario lived in a peaceful magical home surrounded by trees and the ocean within reach. Ali and her family were surrounded by a close-knit community in which their kids journeyed at least home twice a year.   Ali finally slowed down, and enjoyed each day with her hubby Mario, as they were happiest when her children and grandchildren would visit.  


Ali lived each moment to the fullest and always challenged herself to be the best she could be.  As Alicia left this world peacefully, her last words to her children were "I will always love you mi corazon, I will be with you every step of the way."




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